I got my first Barbie when I was 5 or 6.  I adored her.  This was the beginning of my love for clothes. I loved her beautifully made clothing with teensy zippers and snaps.  I loved her tiny little open-toed pumps.  I loved her little purses.  I loved her long ponytail.  I know some people…

In general, I would say our cats Leo (our brown tabby) and Murphy (our orange tabby) love my husband the most.  They love me.  Just not as much as they love my husband. However, in general, they have sufficient “respect” (if a cat can ever be deemed to respect anyone or anything) for me.  I…

As theaters are starting to consider opening up again … If you are in rehearsals and you think you may be sick or “coming down with something” – STAY THE FUCK AT HOME. Nobody is going to be happy with you if you bring the creeping crud into the cast.  Yes, it’s a hassle to…

I’m exhausted and stressed.  Dishwasher is acting up again; AC out on my car; other stuff hanging over my head; and just finished a stack of discovery for one of my side gigs (because I can’t stand to have it sitting there unfinished once I start it). I realize these are all minor annoyances and…

Despite promises of good health (because we all “know” that weight loss cures everything), Weight Loss Surgery (WLS) survivors are at risk of a plethora of health issues: Gastric surgery is associated with numerous nutritional disorders, including pernicious anemia, iron deficiency anemia, bone mineral disease, postvagotomy syndrome, early and late dumping syndromes, hyperinsulinemic hypoglycemia, malnutrition, malabsorption, and…

For the longest time, Easter was my favorite holiday.  Even when you don’t believe in God, Easter is so hopeful.  To me, it’s all about Spring and new life – and candy. Easter has so many wonderful things – you get new clothes (I have always been about the clothes); the music is wonderful and…

I was thinking back to TV when I was (much) younger.  The shows were all, basically, stand alone plots.  Yes, there were recurring characters, but the issues were all resolved in the half hour or hour or two hours (remember those “Mystery Movies”?) that was allotted to them. Now it seems all the shows require,…

No.  Not The Crown.  No.  Not The Queen’s Gambit. The Equalizer. Starring the one and only Queen Latifah. I have only seen an episode or two of the original TV show The Equalizer (1985-1989); but I liked what I saw. I never saw the Denzel Washington reboot film.  Now I’m watching the new TV version…

I was typing away on my computer and for some reason, my fat old lady brain told me that when I say I’m, “up to my tits” in something – the bar has dropped considerably. As my Grandma Harris, used to say, “Who thinks of these things?” Apparently, that would be me.

Trolling Pinterest for fat art, I run across Happy Beppy dolls/figures. They are delightful, fat round people.  So many different styles, but only one shape – ROUND.  Really, really round. So why are Happy Beppies so diverse?  Because they are made by all kinds of people!  Happy Beppy is a business in the Netherlands that…