The director of The Fischer Troupe shows and his partner opened a store in Frankenmuth and offered me a job – as a sales person and helping to manage the place.  I thought it would be fun. Shows how young and stupid I was. The store was beautiful, as only a gay couple with impeccable…

My cell phone used to be through Virgin Mobile – I loved them.  Really reasonable. Never gave me any trouble. Easy to deal with. But they aren’t around anymore and I got switched (without any warning) to Boost Mobile.  Okay.  Then suddenly, last week, I started getting text messages from Boost Mobile saying that they…

I had an appointment with my psychologist today. It went well.  It went well because I am over my latest bout of depression.  She has never seen me not depressed.  Paint my psychologist surprised. She had no idea this is the person I really am. Today, I was my usual (fucking delightful) self.  I did…

Here’s a tip – hot flashes and thermal garments do NOT play well together. This is the voice of experience. Fall has arrived in Northern California.  Often October is one of the hottest months of the year in California (due to the Santa Ana winds) – but not so much this year.  For a couple…

Netflix has been catching some backlash over the casting of the role of Stagecoach Mary in it’s film The Harder They Fall. Netflix is accused of colorism in its casting because the woman portraying Mary is much lighter-skinned than the real Mary. Oddly enough, almost nobody is mentioning the fact that the real Stagecoach Mary…

When I was a kid almost all “medicine” was delicious – and no, I’m not speaking of the ones they injected into your rosy little butt cheeks.  I’m talking about the stuff they gave you to swallow. I don’t know what brand liquid vitamin my mom got for me when I was a wee one…

I always find it amazing when it is WTF Wednesday and I cannot find one thing to bitch about. Rather, I should say, I can’t find one thing that I have the energy to bitch about. Not to worry – there is always more WTF just waiting round the corner!

I love performing.  I am a good singer and I have stage presence. But what I really bring to the stage is my story-telling ability.  Not as in telling the story of the show but in telling the story of the character I’m portraying; my ability to create a full backstory for that character –…

Lately, I feel like I don’t know who I am anymore. I used to have a very firm sense of who I am.  It was an amalgam of personal style and the things I did and who I did them with. Now, I have no personal style.  99.9% of the time, I couldn’t give a…

Recently, I have noticed a trend in drug ads on TV. They all seem to squeeze in, if at all possible, that either the drug is not associated with weight gain – or that most people lost “X” pounds while using the drug – even though the drug has nothing to do with weight loss.…