2020 needs to just stop. It’s enough.  I give up.  Okay? #fuck2020; #fuckcancer Yesterday, I woke up to the news that my friend Bryan Miller is gone.  I haven’t seen Bryan in many years – I moved to Northern California and he moved to the Palm Springs area – but he was such an important…

Fat people often have a rough time getting appropriate medical care.  Even when not appropriate, the only advice they sometimes get is “lose weight.” This advice is ridiculous on its face because (as any physician OUGHT to know) there is no known way to achieve long term substantial weight loss.  This problem is exacerbated when…

Every now and then I get it stuck in my fat old lady head that it is a different day. For example, today, I am convinced that it is Friday. I KNOW that it is Thursday, and I keep reminding myself that it is Thursday … But in my heart of hearts I am sure…

We’ve been in a shelter-in-place kind of limbo for 6 months now. There are over 200,000 Americans dead. We are getting close to having 1,000,000 people dead worldwide. DEAD. And still people want to deny and/or politicize this virus. WTHF is wrong with people?

Okay.  I’m almost caught up on my “new episodes” of shows I watched. But first I watched all of Legends of Tomorrow (as available on Netflix).  Pretty sure there are more coming – or I could possibly watch more On Demand, but I kind of need a break. Then I watched the Netflix available episodes…

I farted yesterday. You might say farting is a time-honored tradition in the Cotter family.  My father was the king of farts.  We would be sitting around the table playing a game of Michigan Rummy and he would start focusing on his cards – not looking up at all – and then the dreaded smile…

I read this article from Volup2.com and I mostly disagreed with it. https://www.volup2.com/articles-and-blog/2020/7/28/no-laughing-matter-a-history-of-body-shaming-in-comedy-by-fionna-farrell Is there fat shaming in comedy? Absolutely. Do I hate it? Absolutely. But the two examples used are, I believe, are extremes – Bill Maher is a well-known fat hater.  He is the kind of person who cannot be dissuaded by science…

When I moved to my first apartment, I brought along my little gray cat Billie.  Billie had been a gift from a cast member in a production of Sound of Music I had just done, and I loved her dearly. Billie loved my first apartment – because she was entertained all day by the mice…

Considering it’s still 2020, I am just having too good of a day to bitch about anything. My back is so much better. We actually had blue skies and (safely) breathable air today. The dishwasher got run and the dishes put away. The groceries got bought and are put away. Things are not perfect, but…

Actors are often told that their bodies are their tool. I always thought that was kind of a load. I think my brain is my main tool and after that my voice. I can see, if you are doing a specifically physical role – like having to dance, fight, do something really physical onstage –…